Please help me! My family is in trouble!?

I'm a progressive liberal so I'm a little more enlightened then your average american. I wanted to help the poor people of New Orleans who lost everything due to Bush's Hurricane. I invited several people to come stay with my in my home in New York state so they could get there lives together. My wife and daughters were upset but I told them we had to help. The men refused to look for work and they constantly spend my money on things that I don't feel are necessary, like alcohol. They stay up all night playing rap music loud with women who I suspect are prostitutes. I get very little sleep which has severly hurt my job performance and I was demoted. They have spent almost all of my savings now. Now my wife is threatening to leave me after the men ually ualted my daughters. I don't know what to do, I can't turn these great heroes away after what happened to them, but I don't want to lose my family or home either. Please help me!